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The Tower – and why we fear it

Some cards make you breathe a sigh of relief. The Tower is more likely to make you hold your breath. That is where I want to begin.

Iris Perl2 min read

Translated from German with AI.

A picture that will not leave you alone

Imagine a quiet evening. There is a question on the table, perhaps a small one: How should I approach tomorrow’s conversation? Then the Tower appears. Lightning, falling figures, nothing seems secure. In your mind, that small question suddenly becomes a catastrophe.

That leap interests me. The card has not explained anything yet; the image has already started a story. I want to take that first jolt seriously without mistaking it for a prediction.

Not every crack is a collapse

For me, the Tower can ask an uncomfortable question: What am I keeping upright even though it no longer supports me? An expectation, an overfull calendar, the need to be right. It need not mean my entire life.

And I do not want to turn every loss into a pretty lesson. Some changes are simply hard. A card should not tell us to be grateful for them.

Make the question smaller

Rather than asking the Tower, “What terrible thing is coming?”, I would ask, “What do I already know but not want to look at?” Then write down one concrete thing I can actually influence.

The card can stay uncomfortable without becoming threatening. The lightning is an image. What I do with it remains my decision.

Personal views and illustrative scenes. Astrology and tarot are symbolic interpretations, not established predictions.